Let us all take a moment to just sit down and admit to ourselves that when it comes to the whole “love” and being in love concept, we hardly ever know what we are doing. We just dubiously dabble and then, if you are like me, reject before you get rejected.
We try, we fail, we try again, hoping the outcome and result will differentiate from the previous one. Yet, we long for that one relationship that will set fire to our souls, ignite our hearts and give us the wings to soar fearlessly and effortlessly in our everyday life.
4So, we put ourselves out there
You see one that looks appealing, he swims the right way, talks in a way that increases that hunger of companionship inside you and makes you want to leap out of the ocean in joy – finally feeling that you have found your unique fish that was made just for you.
However, what do you do once you realize that you might not have been as hungry or ready to try that particular fish, despite him swimming eagerly in your direction?
This can be a quite disappointing revelation and you might feel utterly confused at your sudden loss of appetite.
Yet, instead of indulging yourself and wrongfully using the person who is falling in love with you out of guilt, you need to be able to center yourself and find out what the reason behind your reluctance to love again is.
Below are three reasons you might not be ready to accept his love: